I have too many issues to worry about our differences. My therapist is beautiful and I am glad she is doing well. I wouldn't respect her as my therapist if we were in the same class. It helps me with the power dynamics (as odd as that sounds). I will never obtain a PhD but maybe I could finish a degree.

As far as intimidation... I never considered it before but this thread has me thinking and I believe on some level she does intimidate me. Not because of her education, income bracket, or her belongings. I am intimidated because I know I am a powerful woman internally. I see success in many woman but they are a mess. We come in all shapes and sizes. I can't see her mess and I hope I never do. I know she's human but I've put myself on hold long enough. I need stability as I falter and knowing she is has what I need is scary.