I'm sorry your bf and you are having troubles, especially now, with your pregnancy. Sounds almost as if he's having a 'mid-life' (although he's a bit young for that now) but at any rate is scared to death of the commitment to a family.

First, and I know this is soo easy to say, but try not to worry so much about being pregnant. To start with your hormones are going crazy, which is normal, and if this is your first baby (which it sounds like it is) it's also perfectly understandable to be nervous or worried. Everything is new. Try not to read the 'horror stories' online about pregnancy. Far more woman have successful pregnancies than those who have problems, so try to focus on that. Of course, read up all you can on giving birth etc. as you maybe be on your own (without bf that is) for that.

Also, please remember, that no matter how mean he is being now, he WILL have to take financial responsibility for this baby as it is his. Your comment about his 'talking about lawyers' is confusing.

Please, think about yourself, right now (because if you do, you're also thinking about the baby) and try not to let him get to you. In fact, as soon as he starts acting up, it would be helpful if you could just cut him off, gently but firmly, and tell him he is stressing you and you can't really handle it right now. Time to form some boundries, or he'll continue to make your life miserable, while he tries to figure out what he's feeling.

Btw....nausea without getting sick is fine. I had two children and only felt gaggy, never got sick. Eat crackers when you have that feeling--it's an old helper but it's still works.

Take care!