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Old May 01, 2014, 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted by kawaiigurl1981 View Post
I live in South Carolina , divorce among other laws are archaic here. We still have blue laws, establishments may not sell alcohol on Sundays starting a 2am on Saturday night. Liquor stores may not advertise they are called ABC package stores or party stores. People that are not from here have a really hard time finding the liquor stores. Grocery stores may sell only beer and wine and stores that sell liquor must close a 7pm each night. Living here is like living in another decade.

Ahh, I see. I was raised in southern virginia (danville area) and remember blue laws, although I think some of the counties did away with them as it was so easy to jump from one county to another to buy alcohol on Sunday, and the stores started complaining they were losing business. I remember ABC stores too...was not aware of SC rather antiquated divorce laws although I gather Va. is similar in that one must be physically seperated for a year before the divorce--not sure about cohabitating with anyone during that time, tho.

I'd suggest you and he come to Nevada for the 6 wks residency required to divorce, but I gather there are other concerns. Again, I wish I could help. I truly do know what you're going thru. When you feel strong enough, take a long look at where you are, and where you want to be in 5 years. Once you decide where that is, then work for it. If you have an actual goal rather than an ethereal 'idea' of a goal, it's easier. Hard questions need to be asked, I know. Just trust yourself.

Take care.
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