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Tuff situation. Is it possible to be "in the here and now" with him instead of looking so much into the future...now, he is taking the gamble... Let it play out.
I will say that many times when the man does become free...he really wants to be free to explore other things. (yes, it did happen in my life - ouch ouch ouch).
I'm unsure about the "Alienation of Affection. His wife could sue you." Is that worth it to you. I AM NOT PROMOTING CHEATING - but reality - sometimes marriages are over. If you trust he is telling you the truth. Good luck..."I am not casting any stones"
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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