Thanks guys for the great advice. I sent the post to my T and it was the best thin. I have been working to be more honest with T about my emotions. It paid off because T wrote back and clarified things. And it was all very good. You guys were right and so was my thought that it might have been me doing the pulling away. I now understand what is going on with me and that issue. I have been tormented my whole life with this cycle in relationships. This was a HUGE breakthrough.