I'm sorry it didn't work out. This guy sounds like a loser so move on. Funny how your experiences mirror mine. I messaged someone on Okcupid and we sent messages back and forth and i thought we were getting on fine. We arranged a date and i had it all planned ( not sitting in a car watching the rain though that has it's place on the dating timeline i'm sure ) and ,though i say it myself, i think she would have loved it. Then at nearly the last minute she thought i was being too familiar and complimentary to her and pulled out. Jeez what do women want.
Anyway i met someone else and as they say we are 'getting it on'. So don't give up. It's his loss i'm sure. Lots of nice guys out there. LOve and peace.