Which big boobs? You talking about our hefty bosoms or our milieu? Lol!

I think being two or more standard deviations away from average is trauma. We didn't have a chance.

I made a big faux pas in the mental health center. I treat clients exactly as I treat staff. I meant no harm. I try to be the same wherever I am. The truth is if I'm not isolating I need to be among bright people or I become depressed. Average iq people are a drain on me, much more so than mentally disabled people. I think its the weak egos and strong ego defenses. Bright people must be very wary among the average. Sigh.

The problem is public schools where we were grouped by age and formed identities around how we measured up. It was cruel to us all.