i feel alright for now, earlier i got offended on another site because someone implied only a mentally ill person could murder their child, which leads to only mentally ill people commit murder...only a mentally ill person could do this vile thing. Well it was bs and i said so, then they still didn't get it so i had to re-explain that one does not have to be mentally ill to do vile things to another human.....just irks me, why are people so ignorant.