Hi T,
I hope you enjoy your holidays

I miss you but I'm doing okay.
I've just realized my own transference - I treat my boss like she would be you

That's not what I'd expect... Of course I do not talk to her about my problems but I send her work related e-mails and she always always responds and sometimes even add something very positive or personal - I could read her e-mails over and over again - oh gash