Has he ever asked you what you want to talk about, or what your goals are for therapy? Maybe you could make a list of some specific issues in your life that you want help addressing? Communicating with others, friendships, assertiveness (I'm just throwing things out there, I don't know that these apply to you). If you come prepared with a topic that is a good start. If you don't know where to go from there you can tell him that and ask him what he suggests. Maybe then you can work together...

I think your sessions focus too much on your feelings for him. You end up angry, get passive aggressive. Of course nothing gets accomplished, he can't read your mind or tell you what to do. I think he hopes you'll take a more active approach in your therapy.