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Originally Posted by winenot3
Well why doesn't he just tell me this, with words? I feel like I always have to play a guessing game, and I'm assuming he has to do the same with me.
I just don't even know what to talk about with him anymore. What sentence should I start by saying? I'm asking because I'm totally clueless and obviously suck at communication and reading people.
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Because I am being very straight forward with you and most T's are more careful with what they say
Really, start by saying the things you don't want to say. Tell him you're angry at him and list all the reasons why. Tell him exactly what your problems are and exactly why they're bothering you. Don't make him guess. That's a borderline thing, to assume that other people can read your mind or "know what you mean" when you say something. They can't.