So, he called me wanting to talk things over. We argued slightly through the whole thing. Everytime i tried bringing up how i cannot do the 16 and 24 hours because i basically have things that i want to do, he starts saying that i dont consider him the top priority. He says i put my brothers before him, and that why should we have to compromise around their schedule when they should compromise with ours. He conveniently didnt remember the statement he said that he blamed my brothers for not finding another place to rent fast enough before he violated his parole and got stuck in halfway house another year.

He readily admitted he is pitting me against my brothers because he should come first, and that i should jump at the chance to spend all my time with him.

Honest opinions. Is a husband supposed to pitt the wife against her family just because he thinks he isnt the high priority? I am trying to compromise with both sides and he is a high priority. But a friend says my priority should be me first.

Any thoughts?

Ami thinking right or am i wrong about what marriage is?