Quick update: LCM rescheduled me this week again and then rescheduled the time again. It was fine.

She said she feels uncomfortable that I don't have a licensed T and told me I need one and that she can't call for me to get one. She called exTT only to give her an earful when she didn't refer me. She said I need one for myself and to make her feel comfortable to know that a licensed and experienced T is seeing me every week, making sure I'm safe.