Hi! Thanks for replying. Yes I need help- seriously.

When I speak to her nicely, she responds well buth then its momentarily and I have to be very particular about what I say. Eg, if I recommend that I will take her to a normal health checkup, she would bring up past grudges & won't move on. I see psychologist as only option. I tried to use the word ''counselor'' & explain that its not only mad people who go to him/ her. But she would get highly offended & refuse.
She abuses my bro & he too is not interested in her anymore. We sisters can't live there. We can go on but I fear things things'll only AGGRAVATE with her- physically & mentally in the coming years, which will eventually affect all.
I seek her advice, love as a mom but right now, I can curb those wishes bcoz now, all I want her is to live safely atleast. She is suffering inside but would not accept it. PLZ HELP ME. I live in India & she is 57.

Sorry, for the long msg. I am new & rules restrict me from PMing u. plz rep here.