Not to be a jerk...

But I try to tell people way early on.
Like, in casual conversation.

Part of that is to gauge their response to things like that.
Part of it is, if they have no actual cue what bipolar or ocd or autism is ACTUALLY about, like ZERO idea, we probably won't have a lot to talk about.

This is not because I consider them ignorant, but because a lot of my interests are or overlap with brain stuff- psychology, biology, neurology, personality theory stuff, brains, whatever.
Somewhere in there a person is going to have some exposure to those things.

If you have no everloving clue... we probably won't have enough overlapping interests.

Just saying.