I would say this councelor gets an "F" in compassion and communication....geeesh. It makes me wonder if this individual has had their own issues with greiving and depression.

(((((faded))))) I'm so sorry about your dad's passing and what you had to go through. Grieving is such an individual thing. Our minds handle it in many different ways. Some folks grieve right away for a short period of time, others for longer periods. Some folks don't grieve until years later.

I don't believe you are overreacting at all. At some point you need to deal with the issue and then you can put it into perspective and go on with your life. I hope that your feeling better soon. Take good care of yourself!

Hugsssssss
J