everyone is selfish, just a little. but i know what you mean, and i agree...

but it's not that simple, not when we work together. we have the same shifts all week, and so far on the days that i try to ignore him, he comes to find me. plus he comes over to hang out with my husband a lot. and it makes it worse that i have to get a ride with him sometimes because my husband keeps our car at night (and can't come get me without getting the kids up at midnight). which, we're working on getting a second car, but that's still quite a few months away.

i know this just sounds like excuses but i'd have to change my entire way of doing things to avoid this guy. he's very much a part of our lives.

with my personality, making friends is extremely hard so "looking elsewhere" is not much of an option.