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Originally Posted by Depletion
Do you ever feel like you just want the other person to chase you around and pull all the internal turmoil. Do you ever want them to break down the walls and demand that you show them who you really are. I guess I just really want to know that they want my vulnerability. I think the hardest thing for me is that I don't ever really believe that the other person wants me to be vulnerable, so I just try to clean up all my messes by myself.
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Yes to all of this. I
need to stop wanting it, because it's something I will never get. But I so, so want it.
As for "vulnerability", to me the word simply means "likely to get hurt" - that is the core meaning after all, and I know it has additional or slightly different (perfectly valid) meanings to other people but I stick to the core meaning.