I made an appt. with the marriage counselor my ex-therapist recommended. I do an 1 1/2 intake sometime in May, though they will call me if they have a cancellation. I'll go alone & see if I "click" with this lady & then try to get to the point where I am comfortable having my husband come into sessions with me. Although, I guess therapy isn't always supposed to be comfortable.

Maybe that's part of my problem--I'm not willing to feel any more pain. I keep everything bottled up, because I'm afraid vocalizing my emotions will cause me even more pain & I'm not good at handling emotional pain.--Suzy