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Is the "other woman" a wonderful escape? If you were raising kids together, paying bills together...seeing things that annoy you and so on. Maybe things will work with your wife, maybe not....but leaving for the other woman?...Not sure you are in reality about it.
I was the other woman with a man whose marriage was over..they stayed together for the kids and other financial demands. I understood. We had an amazing time together intellectually and physically...around 5 yrs. He knew more about me than anyone I have ever let into my life.
When he was finally able to divorce - he wanted to have other experiences. I knew that was possible ..but it was extremely painful. No regrets..I learned so much from my experiences with this man
I'm just saying..things could work with the other lady but make sure you are in reality regarding a relationship with the other woman if your marriage ends.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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