I agree, about getting off the fence. I also agree about being in reality, if it's leaving to be with the other woman or if the marriage is just, well, over. .

I hear you about being a child of divorce and not wanting to take that plunge. Been there, resolved that. In an 'I will only leave, when I can no longer stay,' mental work through. My leaving was not for another,,it was because, I could no longer stay married, to him. Didn't date, for three years, post divorce.

Each action, has it's own consequences. Are your children being modeled, a healthy marriage, despite your affair? Did she, your wife, make a commitment to change? Was there, truly compatibility, upon proposal? Taking a good look back, on how you came to marriage, you may well find out, whether marriage was the correct choice, to begin with.

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