Hi everyone. I don't know what to do. I have a difficult situation with a friend. This is the simplified version: She has been accused of alcohol abuse and lying by her employers and asked to leave immediately. Her accommodation comes with her job so she has nowhere to go. She has asked to stay with us but my H put his foot down and said no. I think he is right but I feel guilty that I can't help my friend. I also feel hurt and betrayed by her as if the accusations are true she has told me the same lies as she told her employer - basically she seems to have made up much of her previous life, including a marriage and the death of her 'husband'. I think she probably did lie (based on other things she has said to me) but I really try to see the good in people and I'm sure she has her reasons. I have seen her drunk but not when she is working. I am at the same time worried about her and worried that she will 'flip' because we didn't help her and throw bricks through our window or something. I am so confused.