Hi Jena.garza.9. You are right about being a human with emotions ,and changing attitude,depending on environment and surrounding people can be taxing on the relationships and hurtful.I don't know how old are you or you bf.If he is young and affected my his mother's influence,then try to talk to him,explain the situation and your feelings,visit his mom with him maybe? If he is old enough to have settled mind,then things might be little more difficult,but meanwhile he is old enough to choose what does he want and who will make him happy,without hurting anyone's feelings.The key is discussion without blaming or finger pointing. Mother and girlfriend/wife occupy different places,noncompeting and requiring appropriate attention .I hope this makes some sense to you.I wish you the best of luck in resolving your situation and feeling loved and cherished.(hugs)