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Old May 04, 2014, 07:54 AM
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OK Soccer Dad...if you wanted honesty...we gave it to you.

It is very hard to be in a marriage that is not very happy and you are unsure what to do. You are trying to figure things out!!!! Glad to see these efforts...some do not reach out for help.

Just remember - if you try and set the other lady aside....you will probably crave her more because you cannot have it. Just be aware of that.

I wish you the best as you go through a very difficult situation!!!
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