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Originally Posted by Grey Matter
To clarify what I meant in my response, disliking sex/being repulsed by it (as in having sex) can be considered a repulsed asexual. There is no shaming here.
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I am hesitant to point out where I thought an individual may have been shaming personal choices. Because of that I choice to make a general statement and it was not aimed specifically toward you. However, simply because you don't engage in shaming behavior it does not
necessarily mean it is not being done, unfortunately.
In regards to this though:
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When you are repulsed by the number of people someone has had sex with, ehh, that's not good. Don't sit on a high horse.
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The OP expressed discomfort that they feel the way they do and they are seeking advice and counsel about it:
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Whenever I think about that, I find it utterly disgusting for some reason, and I hate it that I do. I get it that it's normal for people to have sex, even casual sex, even one-night stands - it's normal, but I still find it utterly disgusting. Not only that, but also when people had genuine relationships like mentioned above. What's wrong with me?
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(from OPs original post)
The least we could do is be supportive. I don't think this is a matter of "sitting on a high horse" at all.
Maybe I jumped to a conclusion, but to try to buffer for that possibility I made a general statement (or tried to). Maybe we could try to buffer like that or is there a better way something like that should be addressed to help out the OP?