Pretty much sounds like my mother. I no longer have contact with her due to the emotional abuse. When I was having a crisis a few years ago she called me having a go and saying my sister (who was supporting me) wasn't my real family and that I shouldn't be going to the mental health team etc etc. This was all whilst she knew I was suicidal. I've been called names, been lied to and told I had to change and was bad etc.
It just goes to show for me the extent the critical and invalidating environment can harm you. Do you have other family and friends you can go to for support?

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