What are you hoping that she will just come back of something? Without any communication.....there can be nothing resolved...& the longer without any communication on what's really going on in the relationship....the more you know NOTHING IS.

You are probably just better off filing for divorce & getting on with your life & she with hers.....but I can say....without that divorce...life doesn't go on....it gets bogged down.

My H was unable to communicate....I understand now because I'm sure that aspergers has been the cause of our failed marriage....& the more I look at his actions over those 33 years...but more I'm sure that's the reason.

Each marriage is unique....but one thing in common...when there isn't communication....there is NOTHING but a lot of wishful thinking.