Hi-I'm relatively new here and ready to start talking about the destructive relationship I have with food. It's either not eating at all, or binging or grazing. I'm 62 and this has been going on for a long time. Part of it was because of a very abusive marriage and part losing a child. So I know that somewhere in my head is the message that if I'm very fluffy, men will leave me alone.

So if anyone could take the time and kind of let me know how this part of it works, I would appreciate it.

Thanks, T&S