I dont have to ask her that, I would not anyway, because it would make me feel kind of hopeless but thats just me, she reasures me all the time of all the qualities I have, and how she is going to help me. She keeps telling me I have so much potential, and its been shut down because of my past, my self esteem, she says she sees wonderful things, so I guess she answers it every other session. I dont like hearing these things, but she wont stop saying them , so I guess I keep listening to them.