Thanks so much for your replies. I've never had to deal with this before. My husband is the best person in the world for me and I love him dearly and I was very scared. But he wants to get help, truly. We have contacted the clinic where I was last week just to have a starting point. There's another clinic in the area that does addiction also. So we are working on that. Maybe a few days inpatient so he can detox safely then outpatient.

I actually feel eerily calm...I think my brain is in shock from the stress. Better than being a psychotic mess.