Jimi, you worded that perfectly.

You're right, and it is something that has happened to me on PC before, actually. I remember someone calling me a girl (because if you're emotional clearly you can be dubbed a female) and when I said "I'm not a girl" I kept on getting asked if I was a boy, etc etc. I gave in and said "I am non-binary, but I don't want to talk about it." which turned into people yelling at me, telling me they can't and wont understand if I don't explain it, and how I expect anyone to respect me if I don't educate them like lol are you going to pay me to tutor your masses yet again?