hi binvt
wow. just seeing it from your side, there is something very wrong with her. I would suspect that she suffered some trauma long before you that was triggered by the birth of your child. it is all being projected on you. sounds like a separation is a good idea so that she can sort things out. welcome to psych central. you will find that we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome