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nothemama8 said:
when we tried to read the thread from lostson we all got triggered, yes he may be a victum, but those of us who still live our abuse need safety

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Perhaps he still struggles with his own memories of abuse too? Or because he also suffers from the urges he does, does that mean his feelings are not valid?

Let me ask you: if he'd come on this board and only disclosed his own abuse, not the temptation he has to abuse others, would you have supported him?