...according to the new guideline, i think the majority of us will no longer qualify as members here IF we were truthful.........the only mistake lostson made was giving us too much information..as has been said, if he had only asked for help because of his being abused....he would have been welcomed with open arms.......once again this young man who had urges he NEVER acted out on, sought empathy and was once again dismissed........i will continue to stay by his side and seek out help for him.