So my husband and I separated three weeks ago (see previous thread for details) we met last night to talk about where to go next. We agreed that I could take some time to determine what would need to change to consider reconciling. However now he wants to take me off of the health insurance. Which would mean I would need to get state insurance which is fine but one of the problems we have is him not investing in me. And for me this feels like one more area he isn't willing to care for me but expects me to just be ok and accept his crap constantly. Is it bad that if he chooses to take me off that would tip me more towards divorce because he can't seem to invest in us even when he's the one with the addictions and psychological issues. I have done nothing but be supportive and when I finally said enough and set some boundaries now I'm no longer worth caring for? I'm so confused