Yes, there were ongoing problems in the relationship, but I had chalked most of them up to problems he was having with his business and his family. Most any fight we had started there...so, it was not as if it was a perfect relationship...but I thought that any problems we had would improve as things improved with his business or family stuff.

As far a showing up drunk, I actually don't recall even wanting to confront him...I'm not a big drinker but had way too much one evening with a neighbor (who had asked about the relationship)...to be honest, I don't even remember going to his house...just the actual conversation itself. Of course, being drunk is no excuse and that is the entire reason I even consider apologizing. I just wouldn't have done it that way had I been in better control. If I had been less intoxicated or totally sober, I never would have gone to his house or brought myself down to his level. In fact, up to that point, I'd been content knowing I'd handled myself well given his behavior. So yeah, I'm pretty disappointed in myself.

In terms of leaving him alone. Yes, totally. Since going to his house, I've unfriended him (as well as his brother) on Facebook and deleted him from my phone. I won't ever reach out to him again. It is what is best for all concerned.