There is no way for any of us to know whether or not lostson has acted on his self-disclosed urges or not. We do not know if he is a convicted sex-offender or not. And before you slam me that we really don't know (for sure) if ANY of us are being honest, I'd have to agree that it is a possibility that some of us may not be.

For me, his post was troublesome. I don't agree with SE that Docjohn has an obligation to refer him to another support site. If we had a "no smoking" policy here, it would be appropriate for docjohn to tell the smoker what the policy is for this site, not to refer the smoker to a site that allows smoking. I don't agree that Docjohn has an obligation to allow people to post here who are going to trigger/upset the majority of other members. Rules are necessary whether we like them or not. Docjohn and his team are the rule makers. End of story.

To the poster who thinks that an adult who rapes and sodomizes a 16 y.o. is really not a pedophile, I disagree wholeheartedly.

Tough call? I'm sure. Good call? You bet.
Thanks,
Okie