okiedokie: I don't agree with SE that Docjohn has an obligation to refer him to another support site.

I wasn't under the impression that Doc John had that obligation either. I asked if he or others knew of any other sites where lostson might be able to find the support he seeks -- I did not insist, I did not demand.

I suppose any of us can draw a line in the sand and stand on one side of it but the fact of the matter is there are pedophiles in this world and unless they get treatment and support, someone may suffer at their hands. If that support can't happen here, then it can't happen here. If that support can't happen anywhere -- if lostson receives this same reception everywhere he goes... how is that helping to prevent children from being harmed? No, I'm not expecting an answer, I'm just looking at the big picture.

I feel no regret for tracking down that link for lostson. I feel no regret that lostson may have found someone here that he can talk to, someone that might be able to offer him some personal support. lostson, please note, I'm not in a position to offer you that kind of support but I'm glad for your sake that you do have people who can.