Just for the record, several of us looked long and hard for an alternative resource for victims of sexual abuse who are concerned about the resulting psychological effect. I personally spent over an hour and came up more or less empty handed - there either isn't much out there, or it's not well-publicized.

LMo speaking as a member, not as a moderator:
I have a ton of compassion for Lostson, both as a victim and as a person struggling to ensure that he does the right thing. This is a hugely ethical dilemma, and there was no fair, right answer.