My fiancé will not do anything that I like. We do not live together and I started workng out at home and I know he wants to get healthier. We live 50 minutes apart I thought it would be great to join a gym together in the middle. My fiancée had come up with every reason in the book not to. He can't afford the 20 bucks a month, gyms are creepy n guys try to pick up girls. He is making me feel extremely guilty for even wanting to go to one. He does not want me going anywhere like that without him. I do things for him that I don't care for. He loves guns and commuters at a gun range I helped out and even door a gun something I really didn't care to do. I feel like I'm just wasting my efforts. Granted there's a ton more difficulties in our relationship but I thought this would be fun guess I was wrong.