Sph123, you're 37! Heck, sometimes I wish I was under 40. It would buy me more time. Don't throw in the towel just yet on having children. But do start conditioning your mind. In other words, if it happens, be okay with it (this is the easy part). If it doesn't happen, still be okay with it (this takes a few serious talks with self). The truth is: none of us really knows the hand we've been dealt. We might know a few cards, but not the full hand, because we really don't have all the information on how our lives will turn out and where we'll end up. Hence, we can hope, even if the present looks dismal. (I'm encouraging myself too as I'm telling you all this)

I have my fingers crossed for both of us plus everyone here hoping for a new, fulfilling relationship.