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Originally Posted by BeteNoire
What hvert said.
You made a massive effort and he wants to complain that it wasn't enough? Where is his effort?
"and now he would have to see about a job"
This sentence catches my attention.
He doesn't have a job and was using you as an excuse not to look for one?
This job was always going to be happening he just suddenly decided when he didn't get his way to pay more attention to it?
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Agree that the job thing is kind of a strange one and stood out. not sure if it's the clarity of the writing that is lacking or what but there is something missing here. Does he mean he wouldn't work while you're there, does he mean he would? I don't understand because if he said 'best time to work is in summer" then why would he want you to visit during the summer when he should be working?
Also... Clearly he doesn't have anything permanent as a job. Why would you go out of your way for someone across the globe, (clearly costly) who doesn't even support himself (assumption, of course). Why didn't he pay for some of your trip .... so many things make this look like a very bad idea and I think he just showed his true colors by his tantrum.
your anger is justified and I'd seriously consider backing away from this if only for a while to really ponder your situation with this guy. I don't trust him.