(((((WinterRose)))))

I'm so sorry to hear this stuff. I would agree that he needs to make his boundaries very clear. It's not your fault if he doesn't! It sounds like a regular therapist might be more helpful, but I understand the attachment thing. It would be so hard to change to someone else.

Don't be so hard on yourself!

Is it possible for you to find a therapist to see also? Maybe do both for a while and find out what works best?

Sidony