We talked it over. I listened to his insecurities he think I'm perfect the way I am. I told him I dint feel pretty.or feel healthy. Wet have other in or relationship one main one is I have no desire to have sex I guess any guy would take that personally abit. He think it's his fault it's not. I assured him I want looking for other guys it's purely for health. He agreed and apologized. He offered to tour gyms with me as well. He seemed sincere.