For those of you that are convinced that he was here for support and its a shame he did not get it, etc. dont you think it rather odd for a person who is fighting off those urges to be hanging out in the chat room with 14 and 15 year old girls? I would think that would be the last situation he would want himself into. But he did. He had a support network that he said he couldnt talk to. Many women here have a support network here that they didnt want to have to give up because of how he made them feel by being here. In my opinion this is getting to be a blame the victims argument. Its the victims fault that they are unable to feel safe in the presence of an at least potential abuser. Its the victims fault because they dont have enough compassion and forgiveness for the again potential abuser.