Thanks that's incredibly helpful. My counselor had a similar response today in terms of making sure that I am taken care of.
We will see what he says tomorrow as that is the day he said I would get a "detailed decision" blah blah

my counselor also supported my not instituting a time frame for reconciliation and rather crafted the sentence :
You've shown me to this point who you are now show me that that is not who you are anymore.
We will see how that email goes over shortly I'm sure.

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