Hi WifeofLS
I'm really truly sorry David encountered such a cruel treatment from some of the members. I've never thought it'll go this far. Hope you are both going to find a place where you'll get the support you need without judgment.
Hugs
sparkling
And Sky:
pedophile - an adult, usually male, who is sexually attracted to prepubescent children (from
Urban Dictionary)
He doesn't have to act on it to be labeled pedophile.