I'm totaly unexperienced in this kind of "busyness", but it seems that my classmates are really used to all kind of stuff.
And they really like to talk about that. Not describing the experiences...today I listened to them talking about who already tried oral sex, menages, casual things with strangers, kinds of stiles that they had tried.
Usualy, in casual circunstances, they just make jokes about some thing someone said turning it in a sexual reference, but today they were very open about it.
It was on a class dinner, beside than just sit there with no one to talk or anything to share. I had to hear these conversations that make me realize I will never belong to that group.
I feel somehow that is impossible to have friends unless you talk and share some of this kind of experiences. Or simply love issues. That I can't belong to any group if I don't talk about this. It's a theme they talk a lot about. And I am that person that don't even likes to share if a guy is cute or not.
Is this a thing of my generation? Is this a things everybody does? Am I the stranger?