bronee: i never try to reveal too much

I think the best idea is to share what you feel a need to share, but often, that information doesn't have to include personal details such as where you live, go to school, etc.

drunkensunflower: I am all for discussion, otherwise I think things are resented even more.

I'll third that. Often what can't be talked about is what most needs to be talked about. To be granted, lots has come up in this discussion ideally, David will now be moving on with encouragement from others; his wife has had an opportunity to defend someone she loves (she knows him better than anyone here might); there has been plenty of reassurance offered that those who can't extend compassion shouldn't have to; and even concerns such as HeyJoe's and Bronee's have been addressed in regard to online safety -- particularly among the teens who may participate here.

By the way Maven, thanks for your link. I would encourage everybody to check it out -- teens can be especially vulnerable due to their inexperience but I've seen some adults post way too much information too. If every member of the community is willing to take responsibility for their own online safety it will make the jobs of the mods much, much easier. Keeping yourself safe is also a means of empowering you, which will reduce your own possible fears.