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Why the heck did admin announce the new guideline and not tell us that oh, btw, lostson and, now we've invited his wife here too, to get her side of the story, are going to stay with us for just a few more days until EVERYONE is entirely pissed off, and THEN they walk away feeling that they have received enough attention already!! Like lostson said, why this is all about little old me? Or some such crap.

I don't come here for shock value. I don't come here to witness the mudslinging. I don't come here to fight with anyone. Now that I think about it, I don't know why I come here. All it has become for me is an aggravation and certainly one I can do without.

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Don't read it then ... there is nothing forcing you or anyone else to open this thread.

I just feel this is a unique situation which well, the reaction has been disappointing.

The thing people seem to focus on is that apparently what I and others have said is focusing on THEIR experience with a p/phile. We're not. Well I'm certainly not. I find this case and this person's attitude quite amazing.

I love how people assume to know my views on p/philes just because I have stated what I think in this case.